SEX, LOVE AND VIRGINITY
A lot of girls complain that guys walk away from them simply because they refused giving them sex, some are even tempted to give away their virginity just to keep the guys.
Let me be very blunt here.
Virginity may not be the real reason to why the guys go away. Yes, no doubt, there are several guys who want sex, and if they don’t get it, they walk away.
The problem may not be the sex or virginity.
The story of the ten virgins in the scripture reveals both the wise and the foolish were virgins, which literally means you can be a virgin and still be foolish. The other five were termed foolish for not seeing the bridegroom not because they were dis-virgined.
NO! But because they had no EXTRA-OIL.
I think the extra oil here is CHARACTER.
Most girls do not have extra-oil to sustain a relationship, while many brag about their virginity, thats all they can offer in a relationship. Aside your virginity what else do you have to offer?
Listen, virginity ends after wedding night but EXTRA-OIL continues. Away with that delusion that virginity is all a man is looking for in a woman.
KEEP your virginity but never throw-down the place of CHARACTER building, for virginity earn’s you respect only from your man, but CHARACTER gives you all- round respect.
Source = Ashagwaram Solomon = My Facebook Friend
Well what is the extra-oil we are talking about today in the modern day. the extra oil is simply what else can you do outside sex. Life scorns and frowns on mediocrity.
The whole world is not in need of another average girl or boy out there. The world is yearning for something better than before.
So dont be that beautiful girl without brains. Don’t be that educated girl without character. Don’t be that slay queen. There are obviously slay queens everywhere. Men don’t need another slay queen.
You don’t want to be just another slay queen. Instead you want to be a true queen. Don’t just be a replica of an instagram model going about living a fake life and living the hussle and bussle of life just to impress some few people.
Extra oil is developing your unique gift. Extra oil is developing that unique you. Extra oil is sharpening your talents and skills. You need extra oil. I need extra oil. Everyone needs extra oil. Go find it.
Let’s hear your view in the comment box what do you think about extra oil